$q=mysql_query("SELECT `to`, `from` FROM `mail` WHERE `to` = '$user[id]' OR `from` = '$user[id]' ORDER BY `id` DESC");
$a=array();
while($f=mysql_fetch_assoc($q)){
if($f['to']==$user['id']){
$a[]=$f['from'];
}
elseif ($f['from']==$user['id'])
{
$a[]=$f['to'];
}
}
$v=array_unique($a);
$c=count($v);
sort($v);
$b=0;
$o=1;
while($b<$c){
$ank=gus($v[$b]);
$count=mysql_num_rows(mysql_query("SELECT `id` FROM `mail` WHERE (`to` = '$user[id]' AND `from` = '$v[$b]') OR (`from` = '$user[id]' AND `to` = '$v[$b]')"));